Category: Workplace Empathy

Sit Up, Stand Up and Engage in Whole Body Empathy

When an interviewer’s physicality becomes in tune with those they are interviewing an honest, authentic dialogue ensues. The Empathic Investigation utilizes both verbal and non-verbal communication skills to effectively create a connection between an investigator, accusers and those accused. This is what we call whole body empathy. The traditional concept of empathy has a number of cliche meanings. The one that stands out is when another individual is telling us…

How an empathic culture gets built

Workplace Culture is built in everyday moments and tested during the difficult moments. Difficult moments test us at work too and can be determining factors on how we are perceived at doing our jobs.  If your job is a field goal kicker and you miss a game winning field goal during playoffs, people are going to judge.  Difficult moments also challenge our workplace culture. Culture is tested when someone messes…

Conversation stalled? Use a mirror or lay a brick

There is a profound moment I experience when I am talking with a work colleague and I suddenly have nothing to say. The topic of conversation might be about the weather. Or, the dialogue may be an important discussion related to a decision that affects both of us, and the company. What happens in that pause, in that space where another person is waiting on my response and I have…

Leaders Building Empathic Workplaces Turn to Strength Training

87% percent of CEOs today believe that their company’s financial success is directly tied to the level of empathy within their workforce. 79% of HR professionals agree. They recognize that empathy throughout an organization influences ease of hiring, retention rates, productivity, how customers are treated and overall business health. On top of that, the State of Workplace Empathy Study found that employees are happy to work longer hours when they’re working…

Empathy in Law Enforcement

For the police, the motto of “Protect and Serve” is a noble ambition. Officers, departments and administration prove time and again that they’re committed to these principles at their very core. But on a daily basis, officers face horrors, dangers, despair and scrutiny most of us could never imagine. In these high-stress jobs, compassion, patience and understanding can “run dry”. We struggle to maintain the empathy needed to “protect, serve,…

Optimizing Empathy: Being empathic doesn’t require giving someone advice to solve their problem.

I was sitting on my therapist’s couch, gazing through the partially opened blinds of his office’s floor to ceiling window, while he talked me through a simple gym couple scenario. “Have you ever seen that couple at the gym, where the guy is ridiculing his girlfriend about how her stomach isn’t flat enough or her butt is too small, and she works that much harder during their workout trying to…

True Life: Addicted to Novelty

“Hello, everyone. My name is Jim, and I’m a novelty addict.” [Everyone: “Hi, Jim.”] “It’s been 12 hours since I last ‘liked’ and ‘retweeted’ multiple articles on Twitter and LinkedIn without reading them or doing anything with the knowledge I gained. But it’s time I admit I need help in order to make a change and break this toxic cycle. These constant hits of novelty are only holding me back.”…